Mentors for immigrants
Big Brothers Big Sisters New American program targets help

The New American Program of Big Brothers Big Sisters of New York City is helping give children mentors and new friends who can positively impact their lives.
“Since 1904, when Big Brothers Big Sisters of New York City created the first formalized mentoring program in the United States, our mission has been to provide adult mentors to children who need caring role models in their lives - a caring adult friend, guide and support who can help expand their horizons and envision a brighter future,” their website states.
Started in Jamaica, Queens in 2001, the New American Program specifically matches the big brothers and big sisters with children whose parents have immigrated to the United States or who are new immigrants themselves. According to their website, it “helps immigrant youth (ages 7-17) overcome obstacles they may face.” The New American Program participants represent about 50 different countries.
Kew Gardens resident Rodney Mendez had been looking for a way to give back when he was watching an episode of the television show “King of Queens” that mentioned the Big Brothers Big Sisters program. He then went online to sign up and, about three months later, was paired with Flushing resident Andrew Claros.
“I decided to join Big Brother and I really didn’t know what I was in for,” said Mendez, who was influenced by his own mentors while growing up and wanted to give that experience to someone else. He added that it feels great to give back in a way that goes beyond just giving monetary donations.
It has now been a year and a half since the two were initially matched. Some of the activities that they have done together include going to baseball games, playing video games, going to the movies and attending barbecues, among many other outings. Mendez said that many of the activities they do together are things he previously took for granted.
“I just get to have a lot of fun. I get out more,” said 13-year-old Claros. “It’s like having a really good friend.”
When mentors first join the program, they are asked to make a one year commitment. They then get together with the child for eight hours a month during two meetings.
During their time together, Mendez said that he has seen Claros overcome some of his shyness to become more outgoing and more outspoken.
“It’s good to know I’m actually taking part in something and trying to shape someone’s upbringing,” Mendez said.
Mendez said that the experience has also included changes in his own life. He said that he has grown up more and has been exposed to having more responsibility.
Mendez hopes that being matched with Claros will be a lifelong commitment and that they will continue to have a relationship with one another.
“I hope we can stay in touch as long as we can,” Claros said.
For more information on the New American Program of Big Brothers Big Sisters of New York City, visit www.bigsnyc.org or call 212-686-2042.